How To Get A Girlfriend

For a couple of months already you have been thinking of getting a girlfriend. You think that you are ready for a new phase in your life and some bits of stability. You learned a lot of tricks of how to approach a girl, how to talk to her, you stopped having goose bumps when you have to call a girl. Yes you have no idea how to get a girlfriend.

You believe you are a great guy. You are cool, you are smart, handsome. You are funny. You even have a great job. But… you don’t have a girlfriend. And you really would like to know how to get one.

To get a girlfriend is not a big problem. You only have to find its roots before proceed to actions.

The first step here would be self-analysis. Dig as deep as you can. Is it your smell that drives the girls away? Is it the way you dress? Should you change cologne? These are the few most obvious. Do you know how to maintain conversation? Are your jokes funny? Do you come play a nice guy or a bad boy image? Go deeper still. Are you confident enough? Do you believe in yourself? Have you worked enough on your inner game?

You can dig even a level deeper. Because if you don’t find the roots of your problem, you will never learn how to get a girlfriend.

There are a few reasons why a girl will say ‘no’ to you.

• You are too immature. She doesn’t want a younger brother. She probably has one.
• You are not confident enough. Girls sense it almost immediately. They don’t want to date some loser who doubts if he is good enough. Make sure you are NOT that loser.
• You are too arrogant. Overconfidence is not what she seeks for. Find a balance. Don’t come as an arrogant jerk. She has had her share of them.
• You are too selfish. In a relationship you have to share and compromise. If you are not ready for this, you are not ready for a relationship.

After having gone through an extensive analysis you can actually proceed to the next step of a venture called how to get a girlfriend.

First of all, even when actively searching don’t stop communication with the women you know, acquaintances, friends, friends of friends. Practice is the key word here.

When you approach a girl don’t think about her as about your potential girlfriend. That will only make you look desperate. Girls tend to stay away from desperate guys.

If you want to get a girlfriend, be yourself. You already know that you are a good guy. Throw in some confidence and go on. Be at your best and charm every girl on your way. Go out more, live an exciting life and stop thinking about your ultimate goal (how to get a girlfriend). It sounds aas a cliché but the best things come when you don’t expect them or stop waiting for them. So don’t.

Further reading as recommended by EmployStrat:

Hugh Hefner — The Best Way to Get Over a Girl